Falling in love with another after breaking up isn't a good drug!

GuestPoster290Guest31 July 2011 13:50:20

"Falling in love with another is not a good drug to heal your pain that caused by your last ex!"

A couple months ago, I broke up with my ex. I really desperated and I couldn't move on. Then, my friend tried to entertain me, she introduced me to her friend, she hoped that I could forget my pain by falling in love with her friend. Yes, I fallen in love with her friend. At that time, I agreed that you can heal your pain that caused by your ex with falling in love with another one. But, now I realize that I was wrong..

Well, there's nothing wrong with falling in love with another after you were breaking up with your ex. However,you have to make sure that you'll keep it as your voice within, not such like a substitution thing. But, if you can choose to not fall in love, I think it can be better. Why? Because your heart needs a time to deal with your mind. Let both of them have quality time to help you to fix it by your self. Let the pain shapes you, so you're not rely to another! Because if you let your self fall in love with another after breaking up with your ex, you will do the same thing everytime you breaking up! How if you don't find another after breaking up? Imagine it and be independent!

I just wanna share

Michelle Chan Member

Member since 07 July 2011

Michelle ChanMember07 August 2011 08:37:11

Time heals almost everything I guess.
Give yourself time, time & time.

No one is in charge of your happiness but you. Wake up, dress up and walk out, MIRACLES are waiting everywhere

Wish u can find ur true love:cool:

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GuestPoster290Guest07 August 2011 19:23:29

well, i've been learning to be who the real I am, without rely on another for sure.
thank you!
wish you a happy life too

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GuestPoster290Guest14 August 2011 18:47:46

give yourself a big break as falling in a true love is so difficult

Mostafa1011 Member

Member since 13 August 2011

Mostafa1011Member15 August 2011 08:11:19

After every break up, you should take time to think over "what went wrong" then accept and then move on

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GuestPoster290Guest16 August 2011 10:41:28

Mostafa1011 wrote:
After every break up, you should take time to think over "what went wrong" then accept and then move on

Yep.
I have to let the pain shapes me first. And I'll realize how strong I am after passing the worst scene in my life

majorme Member

Member since 16 August 2011

majormeMember16 August 2011 13:38:50

heres a worth piece of advice,dont FALL in love with the next person who comes into your life,instead GROW in it.Yes for it surely is true that the minute you FALL IN love you FALL OUT of it.I am a testament of that and so i thin its worth sharing,am not yet with the super ingredient of growing in love but you have my word the minute it lands in my hands a cuople of hours later i will have mentioned the same.Until then keep smiling and happinss is within you,just let it out:)