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Marriage in Marocco

kitty0511

I need a opinion. I met my boyfriend 6 months ago online. At the beginning he was very good with me, he wanted to marry me fast as possible . Then the problems started. He got the wedding dress for me and I never tried if it even fits me. The same with the ring. He sended me a package with gifts but the most of them seemed used. When I’m sick he never respects me and is mad at me ( for the reason I’m sick and I can’t do as he want) .

also he wants 5000 from me when I come to Marocco to buy a apartment. And he told me in Marocco it’s normal to talk with other girls from your neighborhood and  have all of them on Facebook. I don’t know what to do. My flight is soon and I’m scared I do a big mistake by marrying him. Do you have any experiences , thoughts or advices for me ?

thank you

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Assah 20

Your best guide is your gut instinct. You know that all you have stated doesn't seem or feel right.

Why would you even think of marrying someone that you met six months ago?

Before you consider even visiting, learn how to spell the place.

I'm reluctant to discussing this any further due to the few sentences with poor English thrown in there. It seems fake: "Few items he sended me". Really?

In case this is legit, In closing, my suggestion to you is to keep your behind out of Morocco. If you were Moroccan, he would take care of you. The fact that he wants you to buy an apartment says that he's looking for a fool or a mom, not a wife.

There is your answer. Let him toy with His Facebook chicks. Move on.

Music and Arts

@kitty0511 i had bad expérience same like this. I regret. What he did to me he lied a lot . Expérience is a great teacher.

Music and Arts

@kitty0511 there is still time to think. Repentance came at last.

Assah 20

@Music and Arts

Bless your heart. That is sad, but a common thing to happen.

Many Moroccan males (not all) want an easy way out of Morocco. Jobs are often hard to come by for these guys.

Experience tells them that foreign women are attracted to their charm and looks.

They are going to tell you anything they think will land them a way out of the country for a better life.

Knowing this gives ladies the upper hand. They are cute. Play the game. You might just find a hard working and loving Morocan husband like I did

Fifteen years ago.

There are some good Moroccan guys out there.

Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch.

nlazhari

@kitty0511


try to run away from this relationship. You are getting a lot of red flags that God has sent you, but you are not paying attention.



Good luck

idouarab2712

@kitty0511


run .

Music and Arts

@Assah 20 you are right

Lysa Drew

The fact he’s asking you to pay money should be a red flag. If you go, go as if you’re going on vacation. Have a good time, see the sights but don’t commit to anything. With that said, if you feel you are not able to say no, then don’t go. Don’t let anyone pressure you into anything. Also, don’t give any money you aren’t ready to part with.

gmsallee

I have been talking to a man from Algeria for over two years. We have become very good friends, I have gone to Algeria to meet his family. Never once has he ever asked me for money. And the man  you were referring to is it only using you, whatever means he can get. You need to delete him from your life lately. And find someone who is willing to love you for you, and accept you for the person that you are. Best wishes.

Music and Arts

@gmsallee i agree.

Guest9742

@kitty0511 Hello friend, I hope you have had a wonderful weekend!

Having read your post and been lucky enough to spend quite a bit of time in Morocco, I just wanted to give you my heartfelt and sincere advice.

I would never ever tell someone to close their heart off to the possibility of love, however, on this occasion, I will advise you to take every step with caution. I absolutely agree that not every man living in Morocco is after your money or looking for a route out of their situation.  However, with what you've said, it seems like you've been hooked on the rod of an experienced gamesman. I sincerely hope you find true love, someone that will make you smile every single day, someone that you can build a loving and caring home with.

I have seen first hand how pressure can be applied in these situations, please, if you feel that you could be manipulated into doing something, don't travel.

Marwa Hares

@kitty0511 hello , i am a moroccan lady. You should be really careful when dealing with moroccan men, i myself find it difficult sometimes. From the way you said he is treating you, and asking you for money already, rushing into marriage....He might just be taking advantage of the situation

Sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but I am just being frank with you. If you need more guidance, here is my instagram : marwa_hares

Kage BoilingTuber

@kitty0511 my advice is from someone's whose just got married and is having difficulties...


End it ASAP. Block him and just get over him.


A man is suppose to take care of the women Islamically so let him freemix with his fake girls on Facebook.


Also look at red flags and gut feelings.


I over looked one and in hindsight regret it but that's life


If there are moroccan women out their need your advice pm me privately

RR@

@kitty0511


Yeah! Run and stop being so guillable!