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I am planning on bringing my wife and 3 children to America but ever since we got married she always talk about plans and things she wants to do with her family, she doesn't talk about us doing things together, I feel second to her family, She makes statements like "I want to enjoy life with my family" referring to her family not me her husband, her plan is to visit Morocco alone so she can enjoy life with her family she doesn't want me to come with her, she doesn't want me to ever visit Morocco again once she's in America. She wants to do Instagram alone, she's doesn't want to post me or the children, her reason being evil eyes everywhere. Whenever we vacation she makes sure i am never in any of the photos. Any man that will ask for her number she gives it out and her reason being she's scared the men will do something to her if she doesn't give it out. She doesn't want me to learn darija. Someone explained to me if this is a normal thing. I feel like I am in the marriage alone. Maybe I am overreacting. I am confused. I thought once you are married your husband or wife is your family, I am always making plans with whiles she's constantly telling all the things she has planned not with me though. Anytime I will say no to buy something, she will ask her brother and he will buy for her. Her family take priority over me. Is this how marriage is in Morocco?