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GOOD MORNING....YES, WE FOREIGNERS LIKE THE YOUNG LADIES..THEY DO NOT HAVE THE BAGGAGE OF THE MATURE LADIES...THEY HAVE MORE ENERGY AND WANT TO ENJOY LIFE....THEY LIKE TRAVELING TO OTHER COUNTRIES AND GOING TO COLLEGE...THEY HAVE IT ALL MY FRIEND.....JOE

Hi Sandra,

I do not know the answer to your question. My first fiance was 40 and had five children. My eventual wife was 35 when we married. I had enough problems with those two, usual  adult relationship problems, etc. I can not guess at the number of problems I would have had dating an 18 year old.

But many foreigners I have met here seem to go for younger women. What really confuses me, is that many of these men are tall, and their gfs are tiny!

But be careful in generalizations. Even older women can be gold diggers. It seems that more women who use the internet to find a foreigner bf are untrustworthy.  If a man would take the time to meet and date someone that they got to know in person, they would find a more honorable woman.

When a really young lady used to flirt with me, I would get give them my son's e-mail and phone number. (he is 22)

One more thing, it is my OPINION that very few of the relationships between Filipinas and foreigners have any thing to do with "feelings". It is more like a business relationship. No love evolved, just an arrangement of what you do for me and what I do for you.

hi you are absolutely correct..it happen to me.getting married for formality sake.He is 66 years old greek national,but staying and working in germany!and i am 37 years old..can you imagine that..he was the one who fool me and abandon me..he was the one who pushed for the marriage,then when he got it..he go back to germany without even saying anything,no good byes,no closure..no argue..no fights..as if he was gone in the wind..all i have is broken promises..So sad..But life must go on..I thought choosing an older man is more matured,more understanding,more friendly ..but i was wrong.anyways,he is ladyboy(gay)we got married for formality sake.he just want the marriage papers for formality sake,and inreturn for that favor he will gave me a job in germany and gave my son a good education..as if we will just pretend we are real husband and wife in germany.Because he is C.E.O. he own his catering business.but no feelings attach..But i care for him..i even love him like a father..even i know he have a boyfriend.can you imagine that?Still i respect him.But here i am trying to move on,making my self busy working..looking forward for a new happy chapter of my life with my son..maybe i do not have a good luck in finding one good man to love me for real!i just wish he is okay and someday he will realize his mistakes..i just share this sad experience to all..so they will not encountered the same pain i've been through..i am not angry with my ex..i just let GOD do the rest.life is still beautiful..maybe he is not my destiny.every thing happen for a reason..it is only a night mare that needs to over come.

Caring Sandra wrote:

i am just confused why older foreigner likes very young pinay?then after they will complain that younger pinay likes only Money?Why they marry without even taking seriously there feelings..they do not like older pinay?What is wrong with matured women?

Not all marry very young women, I know of many who did not and saw quite a few of them just yesterday. It's a matter of choice on behalf of both parties involved regardless of the reasons, it is still a choice be it a good or bad one.

Men on dating sites commonly go for younger women.
The women who advertise themselves on such sites can hardly blame the man for wanting sex when the women post pictures of themselves sitting on their beds ... or didn't you want anyone to mention you do that?
That's three threads on the same subject so far, all neglecting to mention you advertise yourself, a still married woman, on dating sites.

Baggage my dear baggage.

Hi everybody,

I am not sure that this thread is really appropriate for an º£½ÇÂÒÂ× website. 

We are not here to relate our personal life to other members, we are only here to share our expat experience.

@ Caring Sandra > In an another post, you said that you are looking for love, please note that º£½ÇÂÒÂ× is NOT a dating website.

Like Fred said, three topics on same subject is too much, i am therefore closing this one.

Thank you,

Priscilla

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