Looking for a friend? AGAIN??

Guestposter894Guest11 May 2014 11:11:18

I always see this same topic over and over and under and under and OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!??
ughhhh could you please exactly define what a FRIEND is?

I have been a chatter for a longggggggggggggg time and i get asked by this?
at the first time i chat with them - i was like --- huh??? is that how easy for you guys to make someone a "friend" of yours .. well, coz for me - i do have a very deeeeeeeeep meaning or it.
I base it on the personality and how great we get along - and obviously that's impossible to happen at the first chat.
same goes on the first meeting. you cant claim right then and there that "hey, youre my good friend now"
(you're crazy dude, leave me alone)

just go out there, socialize, and please don't pressure your precious victim by asking "can you be my friend"
honestly... friendship happens when you least expect it.... you really dont need to ask for verification...
unless you have a hidden agenda or something.

>> can't wait till clock ticks 5!! <<

Guestposter894 Guest

Guestposter894Guest11 May 2014 11:23:26

the more you seek for it, the longer it takes to find it. Let go. move on. it will come when you least expect it
just socialise, go with the flow. plus there is no such thing as a good friend - all have their own bad habits
its up to you either to accept it or not...

leeramtan Active member

Member since 23 February 2013

leeramtanActive member12 May 2014 08:35:30

guys are always looking for friends... with benefits?聽

Guestposter894 Guest

Guestposter894Guest12 May 2014 09:06:40

@ leeramtan - i guess you are one of those guys?! right? left? in between??

leeramtan Active member

Member since 23 February 2013

leeramtanActive member12 May 2014 09:11:21

i'm a gentleman,,, i treat women the way they want to be treated..聽

Guestposter894 Guest

Guestposter894Guest12 May 2014 09:25:35

So may i know how they wanted to be treated ? coz you sounds like an expert聽

leeramtan Active member

Member since 23 February 2013

leeramtanActive member12 May 2014 09:43:15

expert? no, its not what you think... I'll explain it privately hahaha,, bye now,, time to work..

leeramtan Active member

Member since 23 February 2013

leeramtanActive member12 May 2014 09:57:06

drizarra wrote:
@ leeramtan - i guess you are one of those guys?! right? left? in between??

im not.. though in between seems good, just kidding...

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Guestposter894Guest12 May 2014 10:42:09

TexanKyle Member

Member since 20 January 2014

TexanKyleMember12 May 2014 15:57:15

#10

I like the way you write Drizarra.聽 you are correct that its hard to purposely make a friend.聽 Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't but it is hard to will such a thing.