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Asking a Mexican girl to be my girlfriend

DavHoks

I know in Mexico it is different than in Europe. Where I come from, you meet a person and after some time it just becomes clear that it is a relationship.


I am talking a lot with a girl from Mexico and there it is crucial to ask the girl officially after some time to be your girlfriend. I have seen people make big romantic proposals but my current situation doesn’t really allow that.


Currently I am unable to see her but the next time I do, I would like her to already be official with me. So I was wondering whether there is an appropriate way of asking her without actually being there present. 


I was thinking of writing a very romantic old fashioned letter and at the end of it asking her to be my girlfriend.


Now my question here is: Do you think a letter like this would be considered appropriate for this situation?


The last thing I want is to not meet her expectations, since I have no clear image of what they might be.

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famouskate100

Hi. You sound like a thoughtful and considerate young man. I believe that it is best to wait, and ask the young lady in person. In person is more romantic and meaningful than a etter, text, phone call, or email. Plus, if you write and mail a letter, there is a possibility it won't arrive. Good luck!

Chilangolite

Have you tried to kiss her? If so and she was receptive then by all means ask her. If you haven't tried don't ask her until you do.